If I have done any work for you at all you probably know that I love Tri-Flow lube. It rocks! Look here for more info. Tri-Flow
Sheldon Brown, R.I.P, was a great old dude. I met him on a few occasions and learned something every time. Look at his massive collection of info here. Sheldon Brown
I use a mixed collection of tools that I have acquired over the last 15-20 years. Here are some of my favorite suppliers. Park , http://www.pedros.com/ , Stein , ICE , bicycletool.com
I ride one of these and you should too...Intense
Check out Sean's Radio Show!! http://www.bicycleradio.com/
These folks do a good job and sell bikes cheap...